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Post by Mikepoet on May 4, 2004 10:59:18 GMT -5
To have it only last as long as it lasts.
Who promised it a Male or a Female?
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JC4life
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Sometimes people are more than they seem. Try looking past appearance.
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Post by JC4life on May 4, 2004 21:13:09 GMT -5
Yes, and he was lying through his teeth. Ain't love a kick in the... well, you know  |
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Post by rinna(on leave...for eternity) on May 4, 2004 21:52:49 GMT -5
my mother and she lied.
my father and he lied.
my best friend and she lied.
my sister and she lied.
the only one who has kept his promise is Mat.
x rinna x
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NeverMore
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Post by NeverMore on May 5, 2004 1:06:29 GMT -5
Promised forever? oh yeah.. I sure was. only once really, hoped for once before that, but promised once. Things were great for a long time, then one day things just changed, another person caught her eye and that was the beginning of being abandoned like yestardays news, old trash. Naw!! I am not bitter at all about it... only problem is, when I said I would love her forever, I meant it and still do, which makes me a bit of a fool.
Rant ended.. ya should not ask questions like that *LOL*
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Post by John Barnett on May 5, 2004 15:22:47 GMT -5
Yes I have and it usually doesn't work out, maybe for some, but not for most. My experience with this so called "promise" comes with the women I have dated in the past. It is human nature in a sense, to do this. It feels good to promise that you are going to love someone forever, and at that moment, you feel as if you will, but eventually it wears off most of the time. It's like a fad, it comes and it goes. That's why I find it so hard to believe in romantic love at all, I have no faith in it. Perhaps some of us are simply starcrossed. Beats me.
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Post by Persephone on May 6, 2004 9:11:02 GMT -5
My God promised me forever love and so did my parents.
If somebody else did, I think they're dead now.
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Post by Mikepoet on May 6, 2004 10:44:20 GMT -5
When I place this thread on OD I will not reply to every reply because the baic topic of this is for members in general to relieve some pent hurt. Perhaps some members myself included can find something to write a poem about in the future. I am sorry for all the pain felt here and go ahead and vent on this promise that did not come true if you need.
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Hunter
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Post by Hunter on May 8, 2004 1:40:09 GMT -5
Yes.
I wish I could love him back.
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Post by Burning Innocence on May 8, 2004 6:49:36 GMT -5
Yeah I've been promised that...and he's still keeping to his word. He's the only one I know that never breaks his promises...kinda sad it took me this long to realize that....
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Post by Alex'z Death Chic on May 8, 2004 9:41:35 GMT -5
Yes, by alex  |
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Post by bloodredtears on May 14, 2004 23:12:56 GMT -5
God and some distant relatives are the only ones who've kept their promises
as for the kind of love that other here are talking about i have not been promised that kind of love yet...which really doesn't surprise me because i dont' believe that kind of promise can be kept
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Post by KG on May 15, 2004 13:44:12 GMT -5
That's too bad Kris  Well, my wife has kept her promises for a long time now. But, it does take a lil help from me now and then  . But this kind of promise can be kept, I am keeping mine, and she is keeping hers. Even if she stops, I have still given her my word. I do not go back on my word. Love is a choice, not a feeling. I choose to love my wife when she gets pissed off at me instead of yelling back. I choose to give her the devotion she wants so badly. Kris, I wish that you could see that love is a choice. Those ppl in your life that stopped loving each other chose to stop for what ever reason. You can have the kind of love you read about in books. It does exist. I am proof of that. You need to let go of that situation Kris. You are drowning in you circumstance. |
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Post by bloodredtears on May 16, 2004 16:27:25 GMT -5
if i was drowning i wouldn't be succeeding in any part of my life...i like to see it as avoiding unneccessary pain and dissappointment....
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Post by KG on May 16, 2004 16:48:27 GMT -5
I apologize, I didn't mean to offend. You deem the pain and the disappointment not worth it. That is too bad.
I have so many regrets in my life, John has heard some of them, but I wouldn't go back and change one thing because it might effect the part of my life where I met my wife. All of the pain and the ppl that hurt me, I wouldnt go back and stop any of them. Each situation got me one step closer to the woman I now love and adore.
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Post by bloodredtears on May 16, 2004 16:57:35 GMT -5
oh you didn't offend me...i just was saying that too me drowning kind of equals letting something control ever facet of your life...i only let it control my relationships....i'm working on it....it's hard to believe it can last when even now things still seem to go awry with relationships...but...meh...oh well...  i have God, don't really need anything else |
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i have God, don't really need anything else